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I am currently reading F0r Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn. This is an amazing book, she explains in depth what men really think.

"I can tell you that the answers to dozens of other common perplexities are related to what is going on in your man's inner life." (pg.10) This is an important quote in the first chapter of this book. Many women wonder why their husband get so angry or defensive toward them when they ask such a simple question such as asking him to stop working so much. The author of this book interveiwed many different men and put the answers together to come up with the inner mind of our men and what they are feeling and thinking.

"We all know, for example, that "men are visual," but, well..what exactly does that mean?"
This quote confused me until I read it a couple times, it is stating that it's simply a difference in between having the vague notion that men are visual and knowing that the sexy commercial he just watched has become a metal time bomb that will catch up to him the next day. The difference is wondering what is going on in his head and having the insight of the men to help you not only understand what they really are thinking but, also how to support him.

"The more we understand the men in our lives, the better we can support and love them in the way they need to be loved." The author of this book is a devoted women seeking to help support and understand her husband in every way he needs her to. She wrote this book to hlep every women willing to support and understand their man in the way they need. This quote has a lot of meaning to what the book really is. After reading this you should or at least understand the way men in our own lives need to be supported and loved.